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You know, that feeling where you hit a phase in your relationship where you are just humming, things are clicking, and it's a joyous time? Together you’re firing on all cylinders, feeling connected and in a really good place. 

You can even have differing opinions where growth is the outcome. You have productive debates that help you know one another better and respect your perspectives. You feel like you could take on the world together and are totally on the same page.💗

Sometimes it’s referred to as the “honeymoon phase”. And that’s because relationships go through phases!

And more often than not, over time, that spark and flow between you doesn’t just lock itself into place. There’s no “set it and forget it” mode

Because there are inevitably times when you feel disconnected and you find yourself picking and prodding at each other for little things. Maybe you're even getting a little resentful. You’ve gotten so set into a routine that you forgot what made the two of you feel that flow and spark that brought you together.  

There's actually something much deeper that's happening beneath the surface

When you find that you're in those phases, where everything's clicking, and you're moving together. It’s because you’re both are living out your shared values. And when you're disconnected, it's because your values are being ignored, or even violated. Whether you realize it or not. 

But what if we told you that could have those honeymoon phase vibes as your standard way of being? That’s what’s possible with you Know & Live Your Values together! And we will teach you how!

And after a decade of studying, living, and teaching about core values, we've uncovered a process by which you can identify what your unique values are, where they overlap with your partner and how to play them up to create rituals together for more of that magic, loving, passionate energy that you have during those peak times.

Are you ready to ignite a more aligned future together this Valentine's Day?

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Why Know and Live Your Values With Your Partner?

We have been programmed to think Valentine’s Day is all about fancy gifts and nice dinners. But we’re missing out on the opportunity for a deeper, more lasting connection.

Authentic happiness only exists when your values are activated. When they’re not, you feel drained, frustrated and generally out of whack.


Here’s the truth:
 If you are not intentionally aligning with your shared values in your partnership, it’s hurting your relationship and holding you back from living your best life.


But it doesn’t have to be this way.
 With over a decade of research and personal practice, we've worked with couples all over the world to bring their relationship into alignment with their shared values while honoring who they are as individuals.

We just don’t help you uncover your values; we support you in living them so that each day is filled with purpose, joy and love.

What makes us different?

We have chosen to take the less traveled paths and show others the way. As college sweethearts, we’ve been together for over 20 years, with breakups, breakdowns, and breakthroughs along the way. James overcame a debilitating alcohol addiction that was numbing him from learning how to communicate and express himself in a healthy way. And MaryBeth was a clinically diagnosed work addict whose childhood trauma kept her from ever feeling worthy. 


Together and apart, we are on a healing journey that started with understanding our shared and unique values and how to harness them for a better life. James is a certified holistic life coach, amateur chef, and former D1 lacrosse player specializing in the mind-body-soul connection. MaryBeth is a global award-winning coach, speaker and cowgirl whose superpower is giving full permission to be human. 


Today, we run a thriving business together and live between a 200-square-foot tiny home on a 100-acre ranch out west and a rowhome in the heart of Baltimore City. We spend A LOT of time together and have learned how to lovingly set boundaries to respect our differences and ignite our connections. We are honored to share our hard-earned wisdom with you.

Together, We Will Help You…

  • Understand how your values were instilled within you and how to harness them for your well-being.

  • See where you’re currently activating your values, and make small tweaks where you’re not.

  • Create habits, routines and promises to serve as loving reminders to live in alignment with your values.

  • Don’t wait. Refresh your routine. Reignite your spark. Recommit to your love.

    LIMITED TIME OFFER

    Knowing and Living Your Values Course

  • Two lifetime access logins to our Knowing and Living Your Values course, one for each partner

  • 10-day audio course to identify your unique values, see where you’re currently activating them, and make small tweaks where you’re not.

  • In just 15 minutes a day, these lessons will provide a more intentional way for each of you to experience your life and relationship.

  • You’ll both understand and commit to what makes you come alive and set boundaries with what drains you - especially in your relationship

  • BONUS: Love Lens Journal - This special edition journal will become a treasured keepsake to guide you and your partner through each lesson with intention.

  • Couples Alignment Coaching

  • Everything in the course special above, plus:

  • Three private 60-minute 2x2 coaching sessions. You and your partner will be coached directly by us, MaryBeth and James.

  • Each session will follow the framework outlined in the Knowing & Living Your Values Course

  • Coaching involves guidance. Please see FAQ to learn more. 

  • We’ll meet over Zoom or conference call (your preference) with flexible scheduling that accommodates your needs.

  • BONUS: Special Couples Values Profile assessment to instantly see where your values overlap and where they are unique.

  • What Other People Are Saying

  • We knew that when it came to our core values, we had zero clarity. Thanks to MaryBeth and James, we figured out what they were and know how to stay in alignment to create so much more joy between us.

  • Colleen and Jill Rippey

  • It was a great opportunity for us to continue to work on our relationship as a couple and also do some self-reflection. We're constantly looking to build on our relationship and make it better every day, every month, every year. So, it was a real blessing of an opportunity to come and focus on one another and continue to grow together.

  • Michael & Marsha Davenport

  • In our everyday lives, we are so distracted by everything, so every time we try to talk to each other, it gets really difficult. Because it's so easy to think of it as an afterthought and not being really intentional about it. But after working with MaryBeth and James, we're very intentional about listening to each other and it really makes a huge difference.

  • Jason and Shirley Cheung

  • Learning a little more about my core values and learning about Charles's core values and especially learning where we match and where some of my values would help support things that he's aspiring to do and things that I'm aspiring to do happen to be things that he's strong at. Sometimes you think, ‘where can I find somebody to help me with something that I really want to do?’ and then you find out that you have that person right here all along.

  • Charles and Lena Johnson-Bey

    Frequently Asked Questions

    Tell me more about the 2x2 coaching package.

    You and your partner will have three 60-minute sessions with MaryBeth and James as your guides to living a life in alignment with your values so that you can bring more happiness, joy and connection to your relationship.


    > Each session will follow the framework outlined in the Knowing & Living Your Values Course

    > Coaching involves guidance in:

    • - Aligning your shared core values with your partner for more fun, connection and energy in your lives together
    • - Respecting the values you have that are different for healthier boundaries and well-being in your lives apart
    • - Amplifying your communication with one another
    • - Understanding and connecting with yourself and each other on a heart level
    Where are the coaching sessions held?

    Either Zoom or conference call. Your preference!

    How do we schedule the coaching sessions?

    We will reach out to you directly to see what works best for your schedule.

    How much time do we have to complete the coaching?

    As long as you need within the next 12 months (February 2025)

    How will my partner get access to the course?

    Once you’ve purchased, we’ll be in touch with gift delivery options. We can either give instant access with the email address you provide us. Or we can wait until the date that you’d like it to be activated. So don’t worry, we won’t ruin any surprises.

    Is this therapy?

    Nope! But it’s quite therapeutic in nature. We are coaches, not therapists. You are not expected to share or go anywhere that’s not going to serve you. We’ll meet you where you are and give you full permission to be human.

    What is the cost of the coaching?

    Only $999 (33% off - normally $1,500)

    Who is the Knowing and Living Your Values Course for?

    Any person who is or wants to be on a wellness journey to release stress and ignite more self-awareness, self-compassion, and self-care so they can be more impactful as leaders of themselves and others.

    Why is knowing and living your values important?

    It can be really challenging to stay grounded when life gets stressful or feels out of control. Your core values serve as a reliable compass to navigate the big highs and crushing lows. When you intentionally activate your core values, incredible power, energy, and freedom become possible with ease and grace.

    What will I learn in the Knowing and Living Your Values Course?

    What are your values, where do they come from and how to start living them each day so that you stop being what being what others expect of you and start being legitimately happier!

    Ok. Got it. This course must be expensive right?

    No. It’s $97 for two people - that’s 50% off!

    Most wellness courses are like $1,000 or $797, or $479. What's the deal?

    This isn't our primary source of income and our core values include community and inner harmony. How many people can actually afford those courses who really need the help in our community?

    What's missing in this course that those other courses charge so much for?

    You’ll get the 10-day audio with a journal to complete all the exercises in. And some super powerful bonus tracks to take your values-based mindfulness to the next level.

    But there’s no cinematography or fancy technology that goes with it. It’s me keeping it simple so you can get what you need with the least amount of distractions possible.

    This is an audio course that was recorded in a professional studio. Fun Fact: the sound engineer used to work with Madonna.

    Ok, but still...Is it worth $97?

    I’ve invested 10,000+ hours developing this framework and have facilitated it to over 12,000 people from all walks of life worldwide. I’ve even written a best-selling book on it - Permission to Be Human: The Conscious Leader’s Guide to Creating a Values-Driven Culture.


    You'll get instant access to the framework to help you evolve into your most authentic self.


    I've designed this course to be actionable. It's not a quick tip you forget about in an hour. It's an audio-based course with a practical framework that you can use every day and revisit frequently since you have lifetime access.

    When will I start seeing changes in my life?

    It depends on how committed you are to doing the work. If you follow the lessons and modules, expect to see some good traction within days of applying the work, and if you stick with it regularly, you’ll see sustainable shifts within a few months. If you do nothing, you’ll see no results.

    Do I get lifetime access to the course?

    Yes, that is included.

    Does this course have email or call support?

    No, the course is designed to be self-guided and self-paced. If you are looking for extra support, check out our coaching option.

    Can someone help guide me through the course?

    Yes, with our 2x2 coaching package.